Jeff and Sonya Kilmartin

Seminary Professor NAB Missionaries

Catching Up on Life and Ministry

Published on May 14, 2024

Today is May 1. In Cameroon, this is their Labor Day. A fair amount of people are participating in some celebrations, and the rest of us are, well, continuing with our labor.

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And That’s a Wrap…

Published on February 12, 2024

When we last sent out our quarterly newsletter, we were catching our breath from one whirlwind travel itinerary and were prepping for another short foray to see some more of our American churches.

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The Goodness of God

Published on November 15, 2023

Some moments that I wake up, I have to think for a bit about where I actually am – different cities, homes, beds, time zones can get a bit disorienting at times.

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Get to know Jeff and Sonya Kilmartin

Q Who is someone that influenced you in your decision to serve as a missionary in a cross-cultural setting?

Jeff: When I was a new Christian I listened to Keith Green (the musician) talking about the need and our responsibility to be good stewards of our resources here in NA. Since then I have read a good number of missionary biographies which have inspired me.

Sonya: Probably the pastor I had from age 9 till I was married. I grew up in a very strong discipleship-focused church where we were challenged to submit to the lordship of Christ in all areas of our lives, so that concept of my life not really being my own has always been a part of my Christian life. So the idea that I might serve God in another culture was never really a strange idea to me.

Q What life experiences did you have that helped you prepare to go overseas?

Jeff: My Dad was a great influence; he worked with a lot of visible minorities and treated the same as everyone else so I grew up with that. I have been a pastor for about 20 years, which will help in my specific duties there.

Sonya: My teaching degree and range of educational and teaching experiences have given me concern and some insights for helping schools in Cameroon. My outdoor education experience makes it easier for me to ‘tough it’ through some situations. Having 4 children puts us right in the middle – between having very small families, which most Africans don’t really understand , and having extremely large families, which is something we do not want to encourage.  My experience as a pastor’s wife gives me insight into how people, women especially, should support each other, spiritually, emotionally and practically,  and has given me some idea of what mistakes to hopefully not make again. (LOL)  My previous job as  a camp director and various volunteer positions gave me a chance to hone my administrative skills, and my recent role as a landlord has allowed me to learn some very practical skills that may prove useful.

Q How would you describe your first year on the mission field?

Jeff: Very challenging, but I loved every minute of it, and felt that God was able to use all of our family while we were there.

Sonya: Our year gave us a love for the people, and gave us an idea of where we want to focus our energies. We got a taste of the things that would be great, and those that would be very difficult, and an appreciation for having great supporters back at home. I also learned that it is helpful to have basic automotive, plumbing and electrical knowledge for use on the field.

Q What surprised you the most once you began your work? What did you wish you knew beforehand?

Jeff: How friendly people were, and how much impact a person could still have simply for being Caucasian. This is why I say I was simply a good doorknob for Jesus why I was there.

Sonya: I was surprised if I bought something in market that had to be delivered that everyone in town knew where we lived. LOL.
I was amazed at the kind of platform I was given just because I was a white person, and so that I needed to use that influence well.
I wished I would have had someone explain expectations when you go to visit someone and especially what is normal for ‘casual’ visits between women during the day.

Q What initial fears/concerns did you have about serving as a missionary overseas?

Jeff: That I would fail and fall flat on my face.

Sonya: I have a fairly outspoken personality, and an opinion about just about everything, and so I never want to be an example of ‘when helping hurts’ or having people do a lot of work that makes the missionaries happy, but does not meet their own goals and needs.
Q What has been the most challenging aspect to your work?

Jeff: Dealing with tribalism and levels of culture that are not always obvious on third glance.

Sonya: The most challenging aspect I find of work in Africa, since I like to plan and organize things, is the need to be flexible.

Q What has been the most rewarding part of your work?

Jeff: Seeing people come to Christ (whole villages in some cases); seeing churches in NA get involved in the work; finding new brothers and sisters in Christ and making wonderful friends.

Sonya: The best part of my African experience to date, has been some good friendships with a few missionaries and a couple of Africa women, and a few of those great teaching moments when I saw the light of understanding go on in the eyes of some of the teachers we were working with.

Q What changes have you seen in yourself (what ways have you grown) since you have been serving overseas?

Jeff: My vision has both grown and narrowed, since it now encompasses both NA and Africa.

Sonya: I think I am learning to be less of a control nut. You would have to ask my family if they agree with that.

Q What is something that would surprise others about mission work or the people you are called to serve?

Jeff: How lonely it can be sometimes, when you are the only white person around; how God is able to do things that we seem to only read about in NA; how closely people live there, and how close you can become to them.

Sonya: In my experience, with all our kids there and homeschooling the two younger ones,  I spent a lot of time doing very mundane things, because EVERYTHING from laundry to shopping and cooking take SO much longer than they do in Canada. So the fact that I could hire house help is the only reason I found time to do most of the ministry things I did get involved in.

Q What are some of the factors that lead you to become an overseas missionary through the NAB? 

Jeff: Once I became an NAB pastor I never considered any other options.

Sonya: Our time in the NAB pastoring and getting to know the conference, working with other NAB missionaries, the kind of support we had from Manitoba NAB people and churches, the time spent in Cameroon with the CBC and Cal Hohn in our trips since then.

Q What advice would you give to those considering overseas missions?

Jeff: Talk to people who know what the expectations are for that field, get the proper training, and go.

Sonya: Go on a defined term mission and see where your heart is drawn.  I went primarily as wife and mother, but when people asked me what I was going to do there, I literally said “I don’t know, but stuff finds me.” And there were more requests than I could possibly do, but eventually I found my way into things that I was interested in, had an aptitude for, and/or was passionate about- or became passionate about.  Those experiences are helping me as I prepare to go for a longer term.

Q How can people pray for you?

Jeff: Pray that I/we will finish well at our present church; for our children who we are leaving behind this time; for the support-raising process – especially that we receive much prayer support for when we are on the field.

Sonya: Please pray…
… that we will be able to raise our support so we can get to the field in a timely fashion.
… for the adjustment for our extended family as we plan to leave, especially leaving all our young adult children and aging parents here in Canada.
…and for a smooth transition for our home church.

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Cameroon NAB has been working in the country of Cameroon since the 1930’s. We helped birth the Cameroon Baptist Convention that now has over 1,000 churches, two seminaries, 68 primary schools and six hospitals, along with 52 health centers. The primary focus of our work with the CBC is in advanced Medical training, Theological Education and Missionary Children Education. Read More Facts View All Countries
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  • Hospital Development
  • Theological Education
  • Missionary Children Education